Barack Obama was elected with euphoria on the part of his supporters on Nov. 4, 2008. So starry-eyed was one of my friends he told me, “I think Barack Obama may prove to be one of the greatest presidents in American history.” Then Prop 8 passed. And the news media reported that 7 out of 10 African Americans voted for Prop 8, as did a majority of Hispanic voters. But later a petition began to circulate in academic circles blaming the Mormons, who make up only 2% of California’s voting population, for this “catastrophy,” as LGBTQ people and supporters characterized it. They have called for the withdrawal of tax exempt status for the Mormon Church, but not the Catholic Church or black churches.
And yet no one was blaming Barack Obama, whose supporters clearly carried in Prop 8 in California. Why should they? Barack Obama loves gay people, doesn’t he?
It’s just those friends he keeps, and those he finances. Obama is friends with the Rev. James Meeks, leader of the Illinois Family Institute, someone the Southern Poverty Law Center has identified as a major foe of gay people and a “hater.” Meeks is also connected with Americans for Truth, an Illinois group. Obama is also friends with one Father Doug Kmiec, a Catholic priest whom Obama chose to lead his own Family, Faith and Values Tour that began in the last week of September, 2008. The tour was billed as “Voting All Our Values,” but its anti-gay message apparently did not register with too many of Obama’s LGBTQ supporters. It did register with a few feminists, who decried it, but it went out directly to those voters Obama wanted to reach: anti-gay voters.
The gay magazine The Advocate ran an article about the tour, but in the frenzy of Obama fever and Hope (TM) and Change (TM), its impact was a fizzle. The Advocate took the line that “Kmiec’s views run counter to those of Obama,” a mantra that has continued to distance Obama from the anti-gay activists with whom he closely associates.
Obama has said he wants to repeal the DOMA (Defense of Marriage Act), and Speaker Nancy Pelosi said she’d back him in that. So it would seem that Obama thus opposes his friend Meeks’ association with Americans for Truth. But many Democrats who were vigorously behind Obama, such as Senator Harry Reid, voted for DOMA, and it’s repeal seems unlikely, given Obama’s lack of courage on gay issues. If it were only a lack of courage, though, we could perhaps forgive it. Bill Clinton suffered from the same willies, as it were, to push too hard for gay rights. Yet Obama puts himself consistently in the company of people who hate gays who say they liken gays to murderers. This is extreme language. Obama says he doesn’t agree but appears with the people at public campaign events anyway.
Moreover, any repeal of DOMA is likely to lead exactly to where Obama wants to go: to the states. Many who don’t favor gay marriage believe DOMA is a kind of prophylactic, as it were, and if that is removed, it will generate more Prop 8-type ballot initiatives and state action.
Why should LGBTQ people believe that Obama is choosing these people to act as his spiritual advisors and lead his all-inclusive Values campaign if he does not embrace these values himself? Indeed, his own promotion of his tour claimed he was focusing on universal values. As a gay person, I don’t find it a panacea that Obama says (often smugly and with condescension) that he is for civil union, wants to leave it to the states (wasn’t that said about slavery?), and feels secure in his own sacred marriage.
Constitutional amendments to ban gay marriage also passed last week in Arizona and Florida, and Arkansas voters approved a measure banning unmarried couples from serving as adoptive or foster parents. These states either went for Obama or gained in Democratic votes in the days before the election.
For me, marriage is an issue I have not, as a gay person, been willing to embrace. I thought of it as a patriarchal institution that was essentially heterosexual and one that had a history of the oppression of women that I saw no need for gay people to embrace. I thought of civil union as sufficient, and possible a wonderful alternative, if it were equal in all regards. But I have come to see it differently in the light of the onslaught against gay marriage, because this is the issue the homophobes have siezed upon, along with pedophile priests and teachers, that will bring the LGBTQ people down. This is the beginning of our “Nuremburg Laws.”
We will begin to see, under Barack Obama’s presidency, a gradual set of laws that resembles the 1935 Nuremburg laws used to deprive Jews of civil rights, but this time, the laws will be directed against LGBTQ. It will take more time, because we have a federal system that does relegate much to the states, so it may happen last in a state like Connecticut, which showed its unwillingness to oppress gay rights, and first in a state like California, which has referenda allowing homophobic lobbies greater access to constitutional changes. But make no mistake, Obama will support these without being so bold as Hitler to say that he does. He will simply claim there is nothing he can do about it.
In Daniel J. Goldhagen’s provocative book Hitler’s Willing Executioners, he posits that anti-semitism ran so deep in German culture that when a charismatic leader came along who could invoke that hatred as a legitimate feeling, the Christian German people were more than willing to see their Jewish neighbors exterminated.
Obama is a charismatic leader who has shown us a narcissistic personality unrivaled in American politics. He has trotted out a seal, a symbol, a flag, and now another seal called The Office of the President Elect. (There is no such office.) He has shown his love of grandiosity with the spectacle in Denver at the Democratic National Convention that was reminiscent of the Nuremburg rallies, although it was more Britney Spears than Leni Riefenstahl. For all the totalitarian tendencies, which Obama’s supporters don’t seem to mind, come policies that will relegate gay people to the lowest status imaginable.
Obama does hold the views of the company he keeps. And that company is all too willing to suppress gay rights. I don’t think Obama is going to exterminate gay people. But I think we will see a series of Nuremburg-like laws that begin to erode the move towards equal rights for which gay people have fought so hard. We need to be vigilant. And we need to take the blinders off when it comes to Obama.
26 Comments
November 9, 2008 at 12:01 pm
that’s a very valid point. My grandmother, who was a Holocaust survivor, used to say “we had no idea people hated us so much. These were people we talked to every day. ”
I think we underestimate the hostility to gay rights in our culture, and that is about to bite us in teh ass
November 9, 2008 at 12:09 pm
For me, the comment in the article I read about Prop 8 that freaked me out was the one by a woman who had 8 gay employees and said she still voted against Prop. 8. It’s is just what soopermouse said, and what you also realize: there is a latent hatred of gays that co-exists with the overt hatred that can be tapped any moment.
Gay people = the new Jews?
November 9, 2008 at 12:33 pm
Sex and gender – the 2 deep rooted hatreds were channeled in this election cycle. The gender hatred was more obvious, because of the 2 women being very publicly stoned. The sexual preference was stealthier but no less palpable than in past elections.
Does anyone remember that in 2004 the media was saying that the reason for high numbers in early voting was the black voters hi interest in voting on the anti-gay propositions?
Anyway, here’s my take on it, I take more the media coverage angle
http://edgeoforever.wordpress.com/2008/11/09/ap-obama-and-proposition-8/
November 9, 2008 at 12:38 pm
More to your point: The gay people voting for Obama used to mock the Log Cabin Republicans. Which is almost as ironic as the women voting for Obama, attacking other women running for office in the name of feminism.
November 9, 2008 at 1:34 pm
You might appreciate this: http://ooezone.wordpress.com/2008/11/09/pick-up-ball-just-got-a-little-more-interesting-at-the-white-house/
November 9, 2008 at 2:39 pm
I just posted this to my Facebook page. I appreciate that you backed everything up with good sources as opposed to the crazy stuff some people cite. I wonder why SPLC doesn’t seem to make the connection between Obama and Meeks and Kmiec?
November 10, 2008 at 6:19 pm
Good work. I have been waiting for someone to see this. Why have LGBT been so blind? Why don’t straight progressive people care?
November 10, 2008 at 10:54 pm
Great post. And glad you are back.
November 11, 2008 at 5:15 am
That’s one nasty little “concern tr0ll” you’ve got up there in the comment by “coopmjz” . I’m surprised you didn’t delete the comment. A Canadian kid that just happens to be spreading (or starting?) a rumor about killing an American president? I do find that in poor taste. And his post about “retards”? Can you say “Developmentally Disabled”.
November 11, 2008 at 3:17 pm
I see this “issue” brought you back on your feet. That’s nice. I don’t know anything about “Prop 8 in California”, but the thing about Obama — remember ? — was the nature of his “charisma” and what would become of that. Now instead of those drab hoaxes, you are going to have a figure of Shakespearean dimensions and eloquence at the White House, somebody who can actually turn his inners out and muse about them and be amused, — and yet is also fit to stand the pressure of world events ?
You can’t seriously mean that “Prop 8 in California” is politically or socially relevant in the long run.
Anyway, now I go quickly to put you back on my blogroll. Seeing the way you left your blog, I thought you had gone into hibernation.
November 11, 2008 at 3:30 pm
Now I have read a little longer into your post. I am surprised. It sound almost as if you were crying. I can’t understand that. I can’t see how such law changes affect anybody in particular. Here in Spain it was really steep to put through, and the people took it just like one takes cold weather. Nobody said a thing. It was in the news for two or three weeks with photos etc and it disappeared for good like many other laws that only lawyers know whether they are still in effect.
Now, really, Professor, please, you can’t compare that to any Hitlerian policy that enjoyed the advertising monopoly in all the media and schools . Have you seen lines and lines of X-mas trees of that time hung with silver Nazi crosses ?
November 11, 2008 at 7:54 pm
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/27655039/
Obama wants Hitler-like civilian force–the Republicans can’t figure out if he’s Hitler or Stalin but if Bush supports the idea, one has to wonder if Obama isn’t a total neocon. I don’t know about Christmas trees with swastikas on them, but I know that Obama symbol is everywhere and they keep selling tshirts on FB.
November 12, 2008 at 12:29 pm
Cantueso, I can understand coming from Spain as you do where gay marriage is allowed and is not given much thought, it must be hard to understand what it’s like in America. Gay people already live under laws in various states (there is no federal or single law that governs family law) in which they are prevented from adopting children, getting health care for their partners as heterosexual couples do, paying taxes as married couples do, and getting married. But states had begun to open up and in some places like Connecticut and Massachusetts there is gay marriage; there was in California. You say, why be upset at all? Just live. But in Spain you have universal health care, you have no barriers for children of gay people, and moreover you have no hate groups that I am aware of which attack gay people. Hate for gay people here is deep and wide. So if I seem like I am crying, and indeed I feel like it sometimes, that is why.
November 12, 2008 at 12:31 pm
And ps.: Obama is already scaring his followers with his proposals for cabinet posts, but we’ll see if his eloquence and charisma gets him out of being Bush III.
November 13, 2008 at 9:07 am
“moreover you have no hate groups that I am aware of”
Do you know Cela? In his youth he was the greatest of writers, but his best writings can’t be translated, because they are much too idiomatic.
However, there is a novel which is almost as great as his best stuff called “The Beehive”..
It is basically the story of a cafeteria and the people who you’d meet there. You get to know most of those people only partly, only in that setting, including the acquaintances they make in that setting : a criss-cross of stories and relationships.
Well, in that novel there are two gay individuals characterized in a way
“whose lightest word would harrow up thy soul, freeze thy young blood, make thy two eyes, like stars, start from their spheres, thy knotted and combined locks to part and each particular hair to stand an end, like quills upon the fretful porpentine…” ( “Hamlet”)
However, they gave him the Nobel prize, and likely the teachers make kids read that book, since it is easy reading and apparently light.
November 13, 2008 at 9:20 am
As to Obama : the comparisons with both Hitler, and Bush would suggest that Hitler and Bush have something in common.
Now really.
Hitler was cynical, Bush is merely laissez-faire, intellectually unable to imagine things too clearly. Can’t keep them in focus, doesn’t care. Bush is what Germans call ein Pfuscher, a guy who works fast to get an effect, never mind the know-how.
Bush likes a fight, enjoys e bluff and is a bluff, but he would probably get along with everybody, even with ex-celebrity BinLaden or with Obama. Hitler was a terrible loner always.
Hitler was more like those suicide bombers: only one idea: only one mission: only one thought. Bush is nobody beside that.
November 13, 2008 at 2:01 pm
Point taken about Bush. Should have said Cheney. He’s the one down there in the bunker, but people forget he ran the show and Europeans don’t always know the Vice President, though I am sure you do. And I did not know about “The Beehive.” I have heard of it, but have not read it.
Where Obama is like Bush/Cheney is in the neo-con appointments. He will step up the war and is in danger of putting us at war with Iran, if he really follows through on promises. Again, Europeans don’t understand FISA, but it was a law that breached privacy by allowing surveillance of Americans’ telephone calls and Obama voted to support that (even though his party did not). He’s not what people think.
November 15, 2008 at 12:50 pm
In the western world, where else but America are gay people discriminated against in housing, jobs, marriage, adoption of children, etc.? There are already Nuremburg laws in a lot states. Meeks and the IFI would have gay teachers fired. Most states don’t have sexual orientation or gender identity as protected classes and the feds sure don’t. So this isn’t all Obama, but I agree with you he is going to do nothing to stop it and he does have too many friends are openly full of hate for gays.
November 25, 2008 at 12:11 pm
Now people are getting it: http://www.nytimes.com/reuters/news/news-us-gaymarriage-minorities.html?_r=2&scp=3&sq=gay&st=nyt
If they can take away rights from gay people, they can take away rights from (gasp) anybody! No one cares about the gay people per se but the legal removal of rights once held…well that’s significant. I don’t care what straight people have to do to rationalize protecting us. I think it may be too late, though. When does Obama get called out on his gayhating friends anyway?
November 25, 2008 at 12:19 pm
This seems apropos:
When the Nazis came for the communists,
I remained silent;
I was not a communist.
When they locked up the social democrats,
I remained silent;
I was not a social democrat.
When they came for the trade unionists,
I did not speak out;
I was not a trade unionist.
When they came for the Jews,
I remained silent;
I was not a Jew.
When they came for me,
there was no one left to speak out.
- Martin Niemoller
Early supporter of Hitler who wound up in a camp but lived to tell about it (and who forgot the gays, but we get the idea)
December 27, 2008 at 3:14 pm
Now that Rick Warren has been chosen to be at the inauguration, I fully agree with what you have written here. Obama is a gayhater who needs to be watched.
December 29, 2008 at 4:57 am
I don’t agree with most of your post, as an LGBT supporter of President-Elect Obama, but I mainly wanted to comment on one point you made.
I’m not sure that it’s accurate to characterize Arkansas as a state sympathetic to Obama. Poll numbers varied slightly, so a casual viewer might have seen a slight increase in the final tally for Obama versus the most recent pre-election polls. However, even a casual observer might also notice that the state overall voted more Republican than in the 2004 election. The New York Times covered this in their repeat of the “racist belt” story: http://www.nytimes.com/2008/11/11/us/politics/11south.html?_r=1.
Why does this matter? Well, in Arkansas, African-American voters and the two most Democratic counties were the voters who voted against Act 1. While much has been made of African-American voters passing Prop 8, in reality, white Christian religious conservatives were the most likely group to vote for the measure. They weren’t voting for Obama. So, that means that there’s still a lot of outreach work to do with some parts of the traditional Democratic constituency — but it is possible.
Yeah, Obama could have done more against Prop 8, and he definitely made a mistake with Warren. But I think your reaction to him and even to this Family, Faith, and Values tour is a little extreme. Obama is not the same as George W. Bush. He did have a better LGBT rights platform than any Republican. He did state his opposition to Prop 8. That doesn’t mean LGBT people shouldn’t be upset with some of his decisions. Maybe we could take a lesson from groups like the Gay Activist Alliance and pressure our more liberal friends to move further on our issues.
January 2, 2009 at 5:50 pm
LB, thank you for your comments. I simply have come to believe that it is foolish to rely on liberal or self-described progressive friends who are straight to obtain gay rights. We have to do it ourselves. Straight “progressive” people voted for Obama in droves despite his being pro-death penalty, pro-FISA, anti-gun control, anti-affirmative action, and anti-gay.
January 7, 2009 at 10:41 pm
You probably know this, but Obama just helped Gov. Kaine of Virginia get the DNC top post, taking over from Dean. Kaine is a proponent of the federal constitutional amendment banning gay marriage. The head of the Democrat Party is a now a gay hater! Way to go, Dems. This is just too much.
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